How to Be Yourself

How to Be Yourself

Picking up where Quiet ended, How to Be Yourself is the best book you’ll ever read about how to conquer social anxiety. “This book is also a groundbreaking road map to finally being your true, authentic self.” —Susan Cain, New York ...

Author: Ellen Hendriksen

Publisher: St. Martin's Press

ISBN: 9781250122230

Category: Self-Help

Page: 240

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Picking up where Quiet ended, How to Be Yourself is the best book you’ll ever read about how to conquer social anxiety. “This book is also a groundbreaking road map to finally being your true, authentic self.” —Susan Cain, New York Times, USA Today and nationally bestselling author of Quiet Up to 40% of people consider themselves shy. You might say you’re introverted or awkward, or that you're fine around friends but just can't speak up in a meeting or at a party. Maybe you're usually confident but have recently moved or started a new job, only to feel isolated and unsure. If you get nervous in social situations—meeting your partner's friends, public speaking, standing awkwardly in the elevator with your boss—you've probably been told, “Just be yourself!” But that's easier said than done—especially if you're prone to social anxiety. Weaving together cutting-edge science, concrete tips, and the compelling stories of real people who have risen above their social anxiety, Dr. Ellen Hendriksen proposes a groundbreaking idea: you already have everything you need to succeed in any unfamiliar social situation. As someone who lives with social anxiety, Dr. Hendriksen has devoted her career to helping her clients overcome the same obstacles she has. With familiarity, humor, and authority, Dr. Hendriksen takes the reader through the roots of social anxiety and why it endures, how we can rewire our brains through our behavior, and—at long last—exactly how to quiet your Inner Critic, the pesky voice that whispers, "Everyone will judge you." Using her techniques to develop confidence, think through the buzz of anxiety, and feel comfortable in any situation, you can finally be your true, authentic self.
Categories: Self-Help

The Anxious Achiever

The Anxious Achiever

Hewitt, Paul, 148–149 Hidden Brain podcast, 94 Hiding in the Bathroom (Aarons-Mele), 19 Hispana Global, 190 Hofmann, Stefan, 208 household dysfunction, 69–71 How to Be Yourself: Quiet Your Inner Critic and Rise Above Social Anxiety ...

Author: Morra Aarons-Mele

Publisher: Harvard Business Press

ISBN: 9781647822545

Category: Business & Economics

Page: 156

View: 318

A timely and compelling guide to managing the anxiety that comes with succeeding and leading—from entrepreneur, mental health advocate, and top-rated podcaster Morra Aarons-Mele. Anxiety disorders are the most common mental illnesses in the world. But in our workplaces, anxiety has been a hidden problem—there in plain sight but ignored. Until now. The Anxious Achiever is a book with a mission: to normalize anxiety and leadership. As leadership expert and self-proclaimed anxious achiever Morra Aarons-Mele argues, anxiety is built into the very nature of leadership. It can—and should—be harnessed into a force for good. Inspired by the popular podcast of the same name, The Anxious Achiever is filled with personal stories, research-based insights into mental health, and lots of practical advice. You'll learn how to: Figure out your own anxiety profile so that you can recognize and avoid common thought traps and triggers Confront bad habits and unhealthy coping mechanisms Resist perfectionism, manage social anxiety, and set boundaries to prevent burnout Deal with feedback, criticism, and impostor syndrome Model—and communicate—healthy behavior as a leader Whether you're experiencing anxiety for the first time or have been battling it for years, The Anxious Achiever will help you turn your stress and worries into a source of strength for yourself, your career, and the people you lead.
Categories: Business & Economics

Date is a Four Letter Word and Why You Should Never Use it

Date is a Four Letter Word  and Why You Should Never Use it

Connect with a Real Woman, in the time of Facebook Dysfunction Steven Provenzano. "Be yourself, everyone else is taken." - Oscar Wilde I always liked ... From: - How to Be Yourself: Quiet Your Inner Critic and Rise Above Social Anxiety.

Author: Steven Provenzano

Publisher: ECS: Executive Career Services & DeskTop Publishing, Inc.

ISBN: 9780963355836

Category: Family & Relationships

Page: 101

View: 329

Smart, quick, funny and right-on, Provenzano draws from years of experience as a life coach, successful author and public speaker to cut through the fear and animosity that permeates today's dating scene. He's appeared on CNBC, CNN, WGN, and on/in numerous radio programs, The Wall Street Journal, Crain's, and The Chicago Tribune. Forget rules, pointless online encounters and dead-end relationships; this is the new, easy-to-read guide packed with expert advice, current facts, quotes, rants and reminders from thought leaders to help you stand above the crowd, in a time of digital dysfunction. For all men tired of drama, and the women who seek to better understand them. Drop your phone, stop dating, and connect with a woman worth keeping.
Categories: Family & Relationships

The Anxiety Healer s Guide

The Anxiety Healer s Guide

How to Be Yourself: Quiet Your Inner Critic and Rise Above Social Anxiety by Ellen Hendriksen 10. How to Do the Work: Recognize Your Patterns, Heal from Your Past, and Create Your Self by Dr. Nicole LePera 11. Negative Self-Talk and How ...

Author: Alison Seponara

Publisher: Simon and Schuster

ISBN: 9781982177836

Category: Self-Help

Page: 256

View: 877

Discover practical, natural, on-the-go solutions for combating anxiety with this must-have guide. How can you begin holistically tackling your anxiety whenever the moment strikes? In The Anxiety Healer’s Guide licensed counselor and creator of the Instagram account @TheAnxietyHealer Alison Seponara brings her expertise and commitment to healing anxiety to the world. While the journey toward recovery might look different for everyone, this portable resource is full of concrete activities, tools, and techniques that have been scientifically proven to calm the sympathetic (fight-or-flight) nervous system and give sufferers a better sense of control over their minds and bodies. This comprehensive, easy-to-use guide includes everything you need to help holistically treat your anxiety and create your own anxiety-healing tool kit, including: -Body breakthroughs -Mind tricks to ease anxiety -Breathing techniques -Grounding strategies -Distraction ideas -Cognitive-behavioral actions -Natural remedies -Gut-health practices -Positive affirmations -On-the-go activities -And more! This is an essential read for anyone who’s tired of living with anxiety and looking for helpful solutions they can apply anytime, anywhere.
Categories: Self-Help

Parent Child Guide to Coping with Anxiety

Parent Child Guide to Coping with Anxiety

Helping Our Brains Manage Strong Emotions Dessy Marinova ... Symptomatology and Family Functioning in Childhood Anxiety with Comorbid Depression. ... How to Be yourself: Quiet Your Inner Critic and Rise above Social Anxiety.

Author: Dessy Marinova

Publisher: FriesenPress

ISBN: 9781039120860

Category: Self-Help

Page: 305

View: 501

This unique guide pairs the expertise of a trained child psychologist with the fresh voice and perspective of her young daughter to help children and their parents embark on an emotional regulation journey while strengthening their relationships and nurturing their confidence to overcome life obstacles. The young readers will learn, alongside their caregivers, how to set goals, deal with setbacks, and live a life in line with their values. Dr. Dessy and Lora’s guide will help us better understand ourselves and our loved ones, recognizing why we feel and act the way we do and deepen our empathy and care for each other. Using a holistic approach, Dr. Dessy offers step-by-step guidelines on managing strong emotions anytime and anyplace. With simple language and fun illustrations, Dr. Dessy and Lora explain how our brains work, with Aimie (the amygdala) making us feel, Brightie (the cerebral cortex) making us think, and Dooie (the pre-frontal cortex) making us act. By keenly understanding how these parts of us act and interact, and practicing the lessons and exercises offered in this guide, you and your child will be empowered to face fears in any setting. The toolkit with strategies will help children and other family members enjoy events, places, and situations avoided in the past or suffered through because of baseless worries and a thousand “what ifs.” Intended primarily for parents/caregivers with children aged eight to twelve and mental health professionals, this guide addresses a growing societal problem: Research shows that anxiety disorders are the most prevalent mental health conditions worldwide, impacting the quality of life of millions of children and their families. But whether it’s anxiety issues or any other strong emotions, this book will help people get a handle on why they feel the things they feel and learn what to do about it. Indeed, the readers will be equipped to use proven science-based strategies to cultivate a resilient mindset preparing them to tackle life’s biggest challenges.
Categories: Self-Help

The Confidence Solution

The Confidence Solution

The essential guide to boosting self-esteem, reducing anxiety and feeling confident Chloe Brotheridge. Ellen Hendriksen, How to Be Yourself: Quiet Your Inner Critic and Rise Above Social Anxiety, St Martin's Press, 2018 Byron Katie, ...

Author: Chloe Brotheridge

Publisher: Penguin UK

ISBN: 9780241475188

Category: Self-Help

Page: 352

View: 700

Become more confident in 2022 with this essential guide from the bestselling author of The Anxiety Solution, renowned hypnotherapist and host of The Calmer You podcast, Chloe Brotheridge 'Rebuild your self-esteem with 2021, with this simple, practical guide to beating anxiety and being brave' GRAZIA 'The only way to improve our confidence - in any area of life - is by pushing through our comfort zone . . . This straightforward guide will show you how' Evening Standard, Books to Read for Better Mental Health It's time to be the most confident version of yourself . . . _______ Confidence is not something we either have or don't have - it can be built, and this straightforward guide will show you how. Renowned clinical hypnotherapist and anxiety expert Chloe Brotheridge has helped hundreds of clients with anxiety and low self-confidence, and in this book will use her own stories, scientific research, and the experiences of other women to show you how to: · Feel more confident · Spend less time worrying and people-pleasing · Build self-belief · Reach your full potential · Assertively set boundaries for a happier, healthier you The Confidence Solution reveals how everyone can follow their path to confidence. 'A straightforward guide . . . she uses her own stories, scientific research and the experiences of other women to show her readers how to feel more confident' Stylist Praise for The Anxiety Solution: 'Remarkable, pioneering, could change your life' Daily Mail *Previously published as Brave New Girl*
Categories: Self-Help

HBR s 10 Must Reads 2022 The Definitive Management Ideas of the Year from Harvard Business Review with bonus article Begin with Trust by Frances X Frei and Anne Morriss

HBR s 10 Must Reads 2022  The Definitive Management Ideas of the Year from Harvard Business Review  with bonus article  Begin with Trust  by Frances X  Frei and Anne Morriss

So I asked Dr. Ellen Hendriksen, a clinical psychologist and the author of How to Be Yourself: Quiet Your Inner Critic and Rise Above Social Anxiety, about the warning signs that someone is really struggling.

Author: Harvard Business Review

Publisher: Harvard Business Press

ISBN: 9781647822149

Category: Business & Economics

Page: 208

View: 964

A year's worth of management wisdom, all in one place. We've reviewed the ideas, insights, and best practices from the past year of Harvard Business Review to keep you up-to-date on the most cutting-edge, influential thinking driving business today. With authors from Frances Frei to Morton T. Hansen and company examples from UPS to Apple, this volume brings the most current and important management conversations right to your fingertips. This book will inspire you to: Build trust—the most essential form of capital a leader has Adopt the best practices for hybrid work Navigate the challenges of workplace anxiety Reconsider your approach to innovation by challenging everyday notions of value Assess whether to team up with a rival and how to manage the relationship Break through the organizational barriers that impede gender and racial equity Lead with a commitment to sustainability This collection of articles includes "Begin with Trust," by Frances Frei and Anne Morriss; "Cultural Innovation," by Douglas Holt; "The Rules of Co-opetition," by Adam Brandenburger and Barry Nalebuff; "Negotiating Your Next Job," by Hannah Riley Bowles and Bobbi Thomason; "Leading Through Anxiety," by Morra Aarons-Mele; "When Machine Learning Goes Off the Rails," by Boris Babic, I. Glenn Cohen, Theodoros Evgeniou, and Sara Gerke; "Getting Serious About Diversity," by Robin J. Ely and David A. Thomas; "How to Promote Racial Equity in the Workplace," by Robert Livingston; "Our Work-from-Anywhere Future," by Prithwiraj Raj) Choudhury; "A More Sustainable Supply Chain," by Veronica H. Villena and Dennis A. Gioia; and "How Apple Is Organized for Innovation," by Joel M. Podolny and Morten T. Hansen. HBR's 10 Must Reads paperback series is the definitive collection of books for new and experienced leaders alike. Leaders looking for the inspiration that big ideas provide, both to accelerate their own growth and that of their companies, should look no further. HBR's 10 Must Reads series focuses on the core topics that every ambitious manager needs to know: leadership, strategy, change, managing people, and managing yourself. Harvard Business Review has sorted through hundreds of articles and selected only the most essential reading on each topic. Each title includes timeless advice that will be relevant regardless of an ever‐changing business environment.
Categories: Business & Economics

Platonic

Platonic

One of the tips that psychologist Ellen Hendriksen , author of How to Be Yourself : Quiet Your Inner Critic and Rise Above Social Anxiety , gives to clients to stave off social anxiety is to focus on the person in front of them .

Author: Marisa G. Franco, PhD

Publisher: Penguin

ISBN: 9780593331903

Category: Self-Help

Page: 337

View: 894

Instant New York Times bestseller Is understanding the science of attachment the key to building lasting friendships and finding “your people” in an ever-more-fragmented world? How do we make and keep friends in an era of distraction, burnout, and chaos, especially in a society that often prizes romantic love at the expense of other relationships? In Platonic, Dr. Marisa G. Franco unpacks the latest, often counterintuitive findings about the bonds between us—for example, why your friends aren’t texting you back (it’s not because they hate you!), and the myth of “friendships happening organically” (making friends, like cultivating any relationship, requires effort!). As Dr. Franco explains, to make and keep friends you must understand your attachment style—secure, anxious, or avoidant: it is the key to unlocking what’s working (and what’s failing) in your friendships. Making new friends, and deepening longstanding relationships, is possible at any age—in fact, it’s essential. The good news: there are specific, research-based ways to improve the number and quality of your connections using the insights of attachment theory and the latest scientific research on friendship. Platonic provides a clear and actionable blueprint for forging strong, lasting connections with others—and for becoming our happiest, most fulfilled selves in the process.
Categories: Self-Help

Unlock the Power of Your Chakras

Unlock the Power of Your Chakras

How to Be Yourself: Quiet Your Inner Critic and Rise Above Social Anxiety. New York: St. Martin Griffin, 2018. Johari, Harish. Chakras: Energy Centers of Transformation. Rochester, VT: Destiny Books, 2000. Judith, Anodea.

Author: Masuda Mohamadi

Publisher: Llewellyn Worldwide

ISBN: 9780738771137

Category: Body, Mind & Spirit

Page: 320

View: 800

300+ Color Photos & Illustrations to Guide You to a Healthier & Happier Life Combining the wisdom and philosophy of yoga with a variety of physical and mental exercises, this engaging book shows you how to achieve physical, emotional, and spiritual wellness through the seven chakras. Masuda Mohamadi shares many accessible practices, including meditations and kriyas, for increased prosperity, strength, confidence, and clarity. Each chapter immerses you in a specific chakra, first providing a quick-reference guide to determine whether you have deficient or excess energy in that chakra, then helping you discover numerous techniques to bring that chakra into balance. These techniques include Hatha and Kundalini Yoga sets, affirmations, journal prompts, mindful eating strategies, and more. Work through all the chakras from root to crown, or use the color-coded imagery to target a specific one. With hundreds of color photos and illustrations throughout, this book makes it easy to align with your true nature and live in energetic harmony.
Categories: Body, Mind & Spirit

From Sh tshow to Afterglow

From Sh tshow to Afterglow

Psychologist Dr. Ellen Hendriksen, author of How to Be Yourself: Quiet Your Inner Critic and Rise Above Social Anxiety, explains, “Mindfulness is not... a vacant mind. Your mind is designed to be anything but vacant. All day we think, ...

Author: Ariel Meadow Stallings

Publisher: Hachette UK

ISBN: 9781580059626

Category: Self-Help

Page: 288

View: 226

Rebound after loss, grief, and the other cruel crises life throws your way with this irreverent guide -- the perfect anti-self-help book. Sometimes your foundation crumbles. Sometimes you realize there wasn't a foundation to begin with. Maybe your relationship ended in a breakup or divorce, or you lost your job, or a loved one died. Whatever crisis showed up to screw with you, it brought everything else crashing down, and suddenly life became confusing, disorienting, out of control. A total shit show. You. Need. Help. Therein lies the problem: Traditional self-help guides just aren't for you. You're an individualist, an iconoclast, a follow-your-own-drumbeat kind of person. The typical sunshine-and-rainbows, "live your best life!" books in the "personal growth" aisle aren't going to speak to your worldview -- you need an embrace-your-weirdness vision for growth and rebuilding. Enter Ariel Meadow Stallings, who has experienced a few life catastrophes of her own and emerged from them with newfound clarity and strength. In From Sh!tshow to Afterglow, she offers a lifeline of support and outside-the-box thinking for times of crisis and confusion, sharing plenty of tactical tips for getting your shit together. Along the way, she never lets readers forget that sometimes a life has to be taken apart before it can be put back together better than ever. Without sugar-coating how deeply it sucks to have your world shattered, From Sh!tshow to Afterglow gives readers a reassuring plan to for putting the pieces back together and emerging stronger than ever.
Categories: Self-Help