Betrayed as Boys

Betrayed as Boys

This much-needed volume examines how sexual betrayal affects boys and the ways they carry this hurt into adulthood.

Author: Richard B. Gartner

Publisher: Guilford Press

ISBN: 1572306440

Category: Psychology

Page: 356

View: 985

More than one in six boys in the United States is sexually victimized by the age of 16. Yet in the growing professional literature on child sexual abuse, few books focus specifically on the experience of victimized boys and men. This much-needed volume examines how sexual betrayal affects boys and the ways they carry this hurt into adulthood. Blending psychoanalytic understanding with insights from trauma-oriented theory and practice, Richard B. Gartner presents effective strategies for meeting the unique therapeutic needs of men with sexual abuse histories. Filled with evocative clinical material, the book draws readers into the direct experience of these clients, the therapists who work with them, and the constantly shifting relational world they inhabit.
Categories: Psychology

Understanding the Sexual Betrayal of Boys and Men

Understanding the Sexual Betrayal of Boys and Men

Understanding the Sexual Betrayal of Boys and Men: The Trauma of Sexual Abuse is an indispensable go-to book for understanding male sexual victimization.

Author: Richard B. Gartner

Publisher: Routledge

ISBN: 9781317375579

Category: Psychology

Page: 348

View: 554

Understanding the Sexual Betrayal of Boys and Men: The Trauma of Sexual Abuse is an indispensable go-to book for understanding male sexual victimization. It has become increasingly clear since the 1980s that men and boys, like women and girls, are sexually abused and assaulted in alarming numbers. Yet there have been few resources available to victims, their loved ones, or those trying to help them. Richard B. Gartner was in the vanguard of clinicians treating male sexual victimization and has written extensively about it, initially in professional papers, then in his landmark 1999 book for clinicians Betrayed as Boys: Psychodynamic Treatment of Sexually Abused Men, continuing with his 2005 work Beyond Betrayal: Taking Charge of Your Life after Boyhood Sexual Abuse. He has been a tireless teacher, clinician, and advocate for male victims of sexual abuse in the classroom, the lecture hall, and of course the consulting room as well as in newspaper, television, radio, and online interviews. Dr. Gartner has gathered together expert colleagues from the trauma, psychoanalytic, medical, and survivor treatment fields. Together, they have created a comprehensive guide to what was once thought to be a rarity but now is clearly an all-too-common occurrence. Understanding the Sexual Betrayal of Boys and Men looks at the realities of male sexual victimization, guiding clinicians and lay people alike to understand the complexities of the devastation it causes in victimized boys and men. It considers topics as diverse as: sexual assault in institutions like the military, sports teams, schools, universities, and religious organizations; sex trafficking of boys and adolescents; neurobiology and brain chemistry of male survivors of sexual abuse; gender and sexual dysfunctions and confusions resulting from sexual exploitation and trauma; physicians’ treatment of sexually abused men’s medical problems; socio-cultural influences on processing and treating men’s and boys’ sexual victimization. Understanding the Sexual Betrayal of Boys and Men is required reading for anyone working with male victims of sexual abuse and assault at any level – psychotherapists, rape counselors, attorneys, journalists, guidance counselors, physicians, clergy, graduate students, and lawmakers – and helpful to lay people interested in this often-unrecognized problem.
Categories: Psychology

Healing Sexually Betrayed Men and Boys

Healing Sexually Betrayed Men and Boys

Healing Sexually Betrayed Men and Boys: Treatment for Sexual Abuse, Assault,
and Trauma is the new authoritative source for treatment of men and boys with
histories of sexual victimization. Male victims and survivors of sexual trauma lived
 ...

Author: Richard B. Gartner

Publisher: Routledge

ISBN: 9781317375517

Category: Psychology

Page: 330

View: 448

Healing Sexually Betrayed Men and Boys: Treatment for Sexual Abuse, Assault, and Trauma is the new authoritative source for treatment of sexually victimized men and boys. Male victims and survivors of sexual trauma lived in shadow until the turn of the 21st century, when scandal after scandal about the sexual abuse of boys and men shed light on their suffering. These men and boys require different treatment roadmaps than their female counterparts. Yet there is little in the professional literature to help a clinician work with sexually traumatized boys and men. Richard B. Gartner is a seasoned psychologist/psychoanalyst who has worked therapeutically with sexually abused men for over three decades. He is a clinician, advocate, teacher, lecturer, and nationally and internationally recognized expert on the subject. Dr. Gartner’s classic book, Betrayed as Boys: Psychodynamic Treatment of Sexually Abused Men, is one of the few written to guide clinicians. Now, nearly two decades after writing that groundbreaking volume, he follows up on his earlier work. Healing Sexually Abused Men and Boys, together with its companion volume, Understanding the Sexual Betrayal of Boys and Men, is a thorough, comprehensive guide to learning about and healing male victims and survivors. Dr. Gartner has invited a group of experts to write about specific problems faced by these boys and men. Specialists from the psychoanalytic, psychodynamic, trauma, and legal worlds fill in the details about a wide range of interconnected subjects related to the complex reverberations of male sexual trauma. Healing Sexually Betrayed Men and Boys covers such diverse topics as: therapy with young sexually traumatized boys; the aftermath for men who were raped as adults ; covert seduction of boys and its aftereffects; treatment for substance addictions and sexual compulsions; couples work with male survivors and their partners or spouses; bodywork with male survivors; treatment for male veterans who suffered sexual trauma in the military; profiling sexual predators and working with survivors who have also been sexual predators. This book is a valuable resource for clinicians at every level of training. With strategies for how survivors can build support networks and descriptions of clinical, familial, and community-based treatments, Healing Sexually Betrayed Men and Boys is essential reading for clinicians of all theoretical persuasions who work with male sexual abuse survivors. Filling in gaps in the relatively scant literature on the subject, it will also help sexually abused or assaulted men themselves understand what is available to them.
Categories: Psychology

The Boy s Own Magazine

The Boy s Own Magazine

... he has explained away what appeared the only evidence of bis loyalty to our
cause — his kindness to this boy . It was not because he loved the old flag , and
those who were fighting for it , but because he felt remorse for having betrayed
his ...

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ISBN: NYPL:33433082271499

Category: Children's literature

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Categories: Children's literature

The Cabin Boy s Story

The Cabin Boy s Story

If he has not done so already , he will betray you . I know not whether you are on
board the man - of - war with the intention of seeking him ; but if so , I tell you , he
has gone home to America . I will not say what he is for the sake of the innocent ...

Author: James A. Maitland

Publisher:

ISBN: UCAL:B2803244

Category: Sea stories, American

Page: 438

View: 897

Categories: Sea stories, American

Beyond Betrayal

Beyond Betrayal

Beyond Betrayal offers support, encouragement, and useful skills to men in recovery." —Mike Lew, M.Ed., author of Victims No Longer and Leaping upon the Mountains "If you have been sexually abused, this book will give you information, ...

Author: Richard B. Gartner

Publisher: John Wiley & Sons

ISBN: 1118040082

Category: Self-Help

Page: 256

View: 350

"With compassion and clarity, Richard Gartner shares insights from years of working with male survivors. Among this book's greatest strengths is the extensive use of examples from Dr. Gartner's clinical practice to illustrate problems and solutions on the path to healing. Beyond Betrayal offers support, encouragement, and useful skills to men in recovery." --Mike Lew, M.Ed., author of Victims No Longer and Leaping upon the Mountains "If you have been sexually abused, this book will give you information, hope, direction, and most importantly, the assurance that you are not alone. Dr. Gartner has written an accessible, compassionate book that clearly lays out the healing process for men who were hurt or abused as children. Whether you were abused by a mother, a camp counselor, a neighborhood boy, or a priest, Beyond Betrayal will give you the tools you need to reclaim your life and move on. If you're going to take one book with you on the healing journey, this should be the one." --Laura Davis, coauthor of The Courage to Heal and author of The Courage to Heal Workbook "Compassionate, insightful, and hopeful, Beyond Betrayal shines a bright light. It is a must-read for anyone concerned." --Kenneth M. Adams, Ph.D., author of Silently Seduced "Beyond Betrayal cuts through the shame, confusion, misunderstanding, and fear that so often accompany the abuse of males and replaces them with clear information. I will begin to use it immediately with my patients and think that other clinicians will do so as well." --Christine A. Courtois, Ph.D., author of Healing the Incest Wound and Recollections of Sexual Abuse "Beyond Betrayal offers men straightforward words of hope and a meaningful way to overcome the invisibility, stigma, and shame they have endured. Many men and their families will find this book a healing aid." --Jack Drescher, M.D., author of Psychoanalytic Therapy and the Gay Man "Dr. Gartner writes in a manner any reader will find accessible. Not only does he understand the topic of males, sexual abuse, and recovery, but he can explain it to those who need to know." --Dr. Mic Hunter, author of Abused Boys and editor of Adult Survivors of Sexual Abuse: Treatment Innovations
Categories: Self-Help

Routledge s Every Boy s Annual

Routledge s Every Boy s Annual

A piercing shriek, however, betrayed the state of her feelings as the boat was
swept violently round by George to avoid a point of rock. As they were now
drawing near to the spot where it was proposed that they should picnic, Jacky
suddenly ...

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ISBN: OXFORD:555044133

Category: Children's literature

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Categories: Children's literature

Ada the Betrayed Or The Murder at the Old Smithy A Romance of Passion

Ada  the Betrayed  Or  The Murder at the Old Smithy  A Romance of Passion

“Well—I—I—watched—you home, and I heard you—a talking to—the—boy—” “
The boy?” “Yes. You keep him shut up—in the haunted—house—oh! oh! —I've
watched you—you—see.” “The boy?” repeated Learmont. “Yes, yes, the boy.

Author: James Malcolm Rymer

Publisher: Good Press

ISBN: EAN:4057664575128

Category: Fiction

Page: 615

View: 774

"Ada, the Betrayed; Or, The Murder at the Old Smithy. A Romance of Passion" by James Malcolm Rymer. Published by Good Press. Good Press publishes a wide range of titles that encompasses every genre. From well-known classics & literary fiction and non-fiction to forgotten−or yet undiscovered gems−of world literature, we issue the books that need to be read. Each Good Press edition has been meticulously edited and formatted to boost readability for all e-readers and devices. Our goal is to produce eBooks that are user-friendly and accessible to everyone in a high-quality digital format.
Categories: Fiction

Beaches Boys and Betrayal

Beaches  Boys  and Betrayal

She was barely on speaking terms with her brother . Her best friend , Marquez ,
was caught up in her own problems . And Summer had just learned she ' d been
betrayed by her cousin and her fiancé . Betrayal . It was a big , dramatic word ...

Author: Katherine Applegate

Publisher: Simon Pulse

ISBN: 0671510401

Category: Beaches

Page: 196

View: 163

Summer has to make her decision before the summer is over: go back to her safe fiance or stay with the passionate love she just found at the beach.
Categories: Beaches

Poor Jack

Poor Jack

A leetle boy betrayed de Gin'ral . Oh - e - oh ! Oh - e - oh ! “ A leetle boy by de
name of Daniel , Betrayed him down at Norfolk Landing . Oh , my boys , I'm most
done ! 66 He says , how do my uncle Gabriel ? But dis is not your uncle Gabriel .

Author: Frederick Marryat

Publisher:

ISBN: OSU:32435078440484

Category:

Page: 382

View: 107

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Boys Life

Boys  Life

At mention of my name, and at the tone in which it was uttered— a tone that
betrayed some measure of what was in her heart — Ramiro wheeled sharply in
my direction, his brows wrinkling. A certain craftiness he had, for all that I ever ...

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Publisher:

ISBN:

Category:

Page: 56

View: 850

Boys' Life is the official youth magazine for the Boy Scouts of America. Published since 1911, it contains a proven mix of news, nature, sports, history, fiction, science, comics, and Scouting.
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Memories of Sexual Betrayal

Memories of Sexual Betrayal

In this comprehensive volume the repressed memory controversy is explored by leading clinicians in a discussion free of the accusatory tone that has often dominated the literature to date.

Author: Richard B. Gartner

Publisher: Jason Aronson Incorporated

ISBN: UOM:39015040744644

Category: Family & Relationships

Page: 277

View: 698

In this comprehensive volume the repressed memory controversy is explored by leading clinicians in a discussion free of the accusatory tone that has often dominated the literature to date. The perspectives presented include an overview of neurological research on the encoding of memory, a feminist critique of the frenzy surrounding the current debate, and an exploration of the social taboos that still hamper objective discussion of child abuse. The issues raised on both sides of the 'false memory' debate cut to the heart of psychotherapeutic practice. The possibility of falsely implanted memories raises questions about the very nature of truth as it is discovered in the therapeutic setting, questions that must be addressed by all clinicians.
Categories: Family & Relationships

every boy s annual

every boy s annual

routldege's every boy's annual. give it back to him, he'd tell me anything he
learned of ... He's betrayed both sides, he has; and it serves hit no more than right
if he's betrayed in his turn. "And now I've no more to say, General; but that I hope
 ...

Author: routldege's every boy's annual

Publisher:

ISBN: OXFORD:555045131

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The Boys Champion Paper

The Boys  Champion Paper

cried Alf , pointing to the Simultaneously , they turned their eyes when the two
boys were bound and helpboat , which had ... No , I should never have betrayed
He seized her arm , and attempted to you ; but I intended to go away , and lead "
No ...

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ISBN: OSU:32435079864799

Category: Adventure and adventurers

Page:

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Categories: Adventure and adventurers

For Our Boys

For Our Boys

The enemy were pressing the Americans hotly, and Alexander Hamilton,
thoroughly convinced of the treason of Lee, leaped from his horse and drew his
sword, exclaiming: “We are betrayed! Your Excellency and the army are betrayed
!

Author: Ambrose P. Dietz

Publisher:

ISBN: UCAL:$B29164

Category: American literature

Page: 424

View: 140

Categories: American literature

The Winborough Boys Or Ellerslie Park

The Winborough Boys  Or  Ellerslie Park

Tis the same handwriting and the same spelling ; and written , I judge , on part of
the same bit of paper on which Master Plummer wrote his letter to me . He ' s
betrayed both sides , he has ; and it serves him no more than right if he ' s
betrayed ...

Author: Henry Cadwallader Adams

Publisher:

ISBN: OXFORD:600073290

Category: Conduct of life

Page: 382

View: 162

Categories: Conduct of life

The Boys and Girls Plutarch

The Boys  and Girls  Plutarch

But Tarpeia , daughter to the captain , covering the golden bracelets she saw
them wear , betrayed the fort into the Sabines ' hands , and asked , in reward of
her treachery , the things they wore on their left arms . Tatius conditioning thus ...

Author: Plutarch

Publisher:

ISBN: UVA:X000843773

Category: Biography

Page: 468

View: 142

Categories: Biography

The Boy s Percy Being Old Ballads of War

The Boy s Percy  Being Old Ballads of War

Then he at York was doomed to die , It was , alas ! a sorrowful sight ; Thus they
betrayed that noble earl , Who ever was a ... wretch betrayed his guest for a sum
of money to Murray , the regent of Scotland , who sent him 212 THE BOY'S
PERCY .

Author: Thomas Percy

Publisher:

ISBN: UOM:39015039750164

Category: Ballads, English

Page: 2

View: 538

Categories: Ballads, English

Poor Jack 2 issues

Poor Jack   2 issues

Opposition Billy nourished a little, and then commenced — " Listen, my boys, and
I will tell you— Tell you a leetle 'bout Gin'ral Gabriel. Oh-e-oh! ... A leetle boy by
de name of Daniel, Betrayed him down at Norfolk Landing. Oh, my boys, I 'm ...

Author: Frederick Marryat

Publisher:

ISBN: OXFORD:590655917

Category:

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